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For decades, my desire for freedom was subtly creating a number self-imposed prisons that were severely limiting my life. Let me explain. Freedom has always been an important value for me. So much so, my need to always maintain freedom influenced the majority of my decisions, and I managed to ‘successfully’ set up my life so I would never end up stuck…
Gaslighting is a term that’s getting much more exposure recently, but what is it exactly? Let me shine some light on the subject, so that you can know if you are accidentally gaslighting yourself or others, or are ever being gaslit.
Gaslighting is a form of mental and emotional manipulation that undermines the validity of a person's thoughts, feelings and perceptions of reality. It usually causes confusion and uncertainty, loss of confidence, anxiety and can …
Being raised by good parents and having what we consider to be a normal childhood, doesn’t always mean that we avoided the lesser-known early-life traumas that can be negatively impacting us, from the shadows, for decades. Keep reading to find out if any of these childhood traumas have happened to you, including Proximal Abandonment, Thwarted Autonomy, Parentification…

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There’s an underlying force for good that affects us all; a dynamism I like to call Grace. I believe we are all standing [and living] in the river of Grace – always and especially when it feels like we’ve been deserted. Grace is influencing our thoughts, feelings, decisions and actions. It moves via our ideas, inspirations, intuitions, realisations and creative impulses. It can also arise as inner concerns, questions, or curiosities, and as external invitations, synchronicities and [both wanted and unwanted] life events and changes.
Perfectionism isn’t only about being perfect, it’s about never feeling good enough and doing everything humanly possible to avoid failing. Perfectionists can be high achievers, very self-disciplined, and possess great attention to detail, but it comes at a cost…
As the name suggests, Mind Detox is a tool for letting go of anything toxic that is preventing you from being at your best. I believe we are born with brilliance built in, but if we are holding on to toxic beliefs and/or unresolved stuff from the past, it is harder to engage our natural states of inner peace and immense potential…
Love, or a perceived lack of it, can be found at the heart of the majority of my own and other people’s root causes that I’ve discovered and resolved using Mind Detox. Irrespective of what the presenting problem is, whether it be a physical condition, an emotional one or a life challenge, the antidote is most often love. And irrespective of the country, culture, age or background of the people from across the earth who I’ve worked with, love appears to be by far the most powerful force on the planet for bringing about miraculous healings and transformations…
In November 2021 I was awarded ‘Tutor of the Year’ by the Federation of Holistic Therapists (FHT). I was commended in the same category in 2012 and after a decade of discovery, I was given the top award. Why? I’ve learned over the years that creating an award-winning academy is not only about offering the best courses I can, but equally important, is the context within which the courses are taught. In other words, it is about the heart that goes into everything done and working with an awareness that love wins.
Ever heard the phrase: You Are What You Seek? For years I thought it was just some happy-clappy spiritual mumbo-jumbo. To be told that I was peace when I wasn’t feeling peaceful was not only confusing, but really annoying! That was, until I learnt meditation and started to experience a sense of inner peace - irrespective of what was going on in my mind. But don’t take my word for it… try this easy experiment…
Do you have a skin condition and don’t know why? I believe the body speaks the mind and have extensively researched the mind-body connection, along with the reasons why people develop chronic physical conditions. Before I share the common causes of several skin conditions, including acne, athlete’s foot, dandruff, eczema, fungal infections, hives, herpes, itching, numbness, psoriasis, shingles and warts, here’s a little background theory…
Are you concerned about ‘catching’ a cold, flu or virus, and want to remain more physically strong and resilient? Keep reading to gain a more empowered mindset towards bacteria and viruses, and learn about the possible mind-body connection causes of colds and flu…
Words cannot describe the relief that came to me the day I discovered that my memories from the past, irrespective of how bad or sad, were only accessible now via my imagination. Shockingly, the same went for my fears about the future. For years I had literally been scared by my mind and imagination…
This New Beginnings Online Retreat covers the Six Pillars of Human Potential - including Purpose, Emotions, Health, Relationships, Abundance and Spirituality. During this 50-minute extract from my New Beginnings Online Retreat, I share powerful principles for knowing and living your purpose, including: You don’t need to know your purpose in advance, the first step to living your purpose is to make your hearts highest hope a priority, and what if your purpose and who you are is ultimately the same thing… Watch Part One now and join my online club to access the full retreat.
I was supposed to be getting married today. Around about now, we 'should' be in Mexico, at a resort on the beach in the Riviera Maya, with many of our friends and family... You can probably guess that none of this plan is currently happening…
This year has gone anything but to our plan - and by 'our' I mean almost all of us. If anyone would have predicted the events of 2020, last December, they would have probably been laughed at and called a scare-mongering conspiracy theorist!
What can we do to feel more empowered in the face of world events? How can we be less affected by the spectrum of economic, political, environmental and societal events? How can we move from being frustrated, upset or worried to making a more peaceful and positive impact within the world?
We may think we want to know ‘the truth’, but do we really? Although knowing ‘the truth’ may seem like an obvious thing for us all to want, there appears to be some pros and cons that come into play when seeking truth. Knowing these can help us to prepare for the possible consequences of finding out what’s true, and provide comfort when faced with the not-so-easy knock-on effects…
What if the secret to Self-awareness is the term I use for being aware of the aspect of your self that is aware. What do I mean by this statement? Inside you, right now, there is an awareness that is aware of this moment happening, including for instance, the words you are currently reading. Yes, your mind is reading, but your awareness is aware of the words on the page. See the difference?
I remember having a conversation with my original teacher of meditation (a great guy called Narain) about all the terrible things I saw occurring within the world. Sharing my concerns, sadness, and fear for the future of us all, he made a comment that caused my perspective do a 180-degree turn…
Encountering a range of emotions is an intrinsic and inevitable part of being human, however much we may wish we could flick a switch and turn them off at times…
Some people that I talk to tell me that ‘inner peace’ seems so far out of reach that they wonder if there’s any point even trying. It is my hope by sharing this list of 15 practical ways to increase inner peace that it feels more achievable for you. You may surprise yourself at how peaceful you soon feel…
Why is there more peace in the present moment? When you leave the moment to start thinking about the past or future, you almost immediately begin to feel whatever you are thinking about. If for example you are thinking about a sad past event then that is how to will feel. Or if you are dwelling on a time when you felt hurt, then again, that is how you will end up feeling…
Want some simple ways to immediately improve a relationship? For the best relationships, aim to focus on warming up your own side of the fence - instead of trying to fix, change or improve others so they are more loveable…
Do you find sleeping a struggle? The average person sleeps for 25 years of their life. Sleep plays a massive role in our quality of life and even the quantity of time we are alive. A lack of sleep has been linked with weight gain, heart disease and strokes, depression, reduced concentration, productivity and other mental, emotional and physical issues that any clear-minded person would rather avoid - if given the choice.
Why is my mind soooooooooo busy?!!! I know your frustration. With countless thoughts passing through my mind at a million miles per hour, I’ve tossed and turned through sleepless nights and found it near impossible to focus during work or play.
Want to change the world? Start with this meditation! It is easy to look out at the world and feel powerless with regard to our ability to make any worthwhile impact. It can all seem way too big a task to undertake or appear outside our control and in hands of others. However, if we allow ourselves to remain paralysed by our perceived powerlessness, then the world will end up being governed and shaped by the minority of people we give our power to…
Have you noticed how good it feels to know that you’ve made a positive difference to someone’s life? Even the smallest act of service can bring a great sense of satisfaction and fulfilment. However, have you also noticed how anytime you have a problem, it usually involves a lot of ‘me-type’ thinking? How is this going to affect me? How can I make sure they do what I want or give me what I need?
The classic strategies for enjoying a successful year usually includes things like ‘goal setting’ and ‘taking action’ etc. But what if there’s another way, a easier way, to enjoy a truly successful year - one that you love? Check out my 3.5 surprising strategies for a success year…
What’s the difference between a ‘normal and healthy’ experience of anxiety and an actual anxiety disorder? There are a number of different anxiety disorders, each with a distinct collection of symptoms. However, the most common symptoms include. Read this article to understand anxiety and learn a super effective quick start cure I’ve used to overcome my own anxiousness…
Over the years, the placebo effect has split opinion. I urge you to never dismiss it as “just the placebo”, which I often hear said. In reality, the placebo is by far the most researched form of “medicine” on the planet because every pharmaceutical drug has been tested against a placebo…
Around 40% of young people were bullied in the past 12 months, according to research by the Department of Education. I can relate to this stat because I was bullied for around six years at school - between the ages of 11 to 17. It was a hard time, but in hindsight, a helpful time too. Here's my story of being bullied and how it both hurt and helped me...
I recently came across an article on with the headline - 'Antidepressants work, study finds, and a million more British people should take them'. My issue with this article is not against the use of antidepressants. I have a problem with the headline saying that people 'should' take them…
I've not met anyone who's fallen in love with the intention of breaking-up one day. We fall in love with the hope that this person is 'the one' and with the intention of it being our 'happy-ever-after'. If you are reading this with a broken heart then my advice can help you to move on and love again…
Have you been single for longer than you would like? Do you believe that there's nobody out there for you? Falling in love is one of the most wonderful human experiences. If you are single with a desire to fall in love, here's five top tips that can help you to lay the foundations for meeting a partner and enjoying a fantastic relationship…

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There is now no question that the mind impacts the body. One of the things I love about Sandy’s work is that he helps people to discover if there is a link between current symptoms of illness or injury and their thoughts, emotions, beliefs or assumptions and, if so, shows them how to heal by first finding peace in their mind…
Stop fighting life. It’s hurting you, making you sick, ruining your relationships and messing with your money. Hidden conflict creates emotional upset: it stresses us out, makes us a victim of circumstance and stands in the way of lasting satisfaction and success…
‘Go home and get some rest.’ Visit a doctor, work with a health practitioner or seek advice from a friend and one of the most common recommendations you’ll receive if feeling unwell is to give your body rest. It seems an easy enough task. Relax. Take some time off, put your feet up and chill out so your body has a better chance to heal. Despite ‘get some rest’ appearing to be a simple thing to do on the surface, most people I meet don’t know how to calm down, disengage from doing and let their body ‘be’…
I first wrote about Mind Detox in my fifth book, Peace for Life, which I self-published in 2011. Despite having already worked with publishers, I opted to self-publish at the time to maintain editorial control because I felt my voice had been edited out of my previous two books. But not long after Peace for Life was released, Findhorn Press asked me to write three books with them and I felt encouraged, as they were keen to keep them as close to my original manuscripts as possible…
Have you seen the Monty Python comedy sketch ‘100-Metre Dash for People with No Sense of Direction’? Picture the scene: John Cleese, Michael Palin, Eric Idle and the rest of the runners are at the starting line. They are impatient and agitated as they wait for the starting gun to fire. Finally, the race begins, and everyone races off in different directions – meaning no one gets to the finishing line, no matter how fast they run…
Turning points often come when you least expect them. Mine certainly did. Everything was going great. Business was booming. I was on television in 30 countries around the world. I had books out with mainstream publishers, was appearing in newspapers, magazines and on radio too. I had a great girlfriend, and we were living in an upmarket part. On paper, I was living what many would deem a successful life. Then one day I woke up to a really scary realization: despite everything going so well, on the inside it was a very different story…

‘Imagine our planet free of war. Imagine your life free from conflict. World peace is possible through inner peace in each of us. I am deeply inspired by Sandy’s pioneering work with Mind Calm, Body Calm and now Calm Cure.’
I once found myself stressed and suffering… while sitting on a beach in the Caribbean! I had travelled thousands of miles and paid thousands of pounds. I was surrounded by brilliant white sand and my view to the horizon was nothing but shimmering turquoise. And yet, despite the stunning setting, I found myself drowning in dread, despair and fear...